I read this in "Waking the Dead" by John Eldridge on the plane to St. Louis:
"[The Wonderful Wizard of Oz] movie left out a crucial point [related to the Tin Woodman], which the author gave in his original fairy tale. The Tin Woodman had once been a
real man, who had been in love with a beautiful maiden. It was his dream to marry her, once he could earn enough money to build them a cottage in the woods. The Wicked Witch hated his love, and she cast spells upon the man that caused him injury, so that one by one his limbs needed to be replaced with artificial ones, made of tin. At first, it seemed an advantage, for his metal frame allowed him to work nearly as powerfully as a machine. With a heart of love and arms that never tired, he seemed sure to win.
"I thought I had beaten the Wicked Witch then, and I worked harder than ever; but I little knew how cruel my enemy could be. She thought of a new way to kill my love for the beautiful Munchkin maiden, and made my axe slip again, so that it cut right through my body, splitting it into two halves. Once more the tinner came to my help and made me a body of tin. Fastening my tin arms and legs and head to it, by means of joints, so that I could move around as well as ever. But alas! I now had no heart, so that I lost all my love for the Munchkin girl, and did not care whether I married her or not..."
"My body shone so brightly in the sun that I felt very proud of it and it did not matter now if my axe slipped, for it could not cut me. There was only one danger---that my joints would rust; but I kept an oil-can in the cottage and took care to oil myself whenever I need it. However, there came a day when I forgot to do this, and, being caught in a rainstorm, before I had thought of the danger my joints had rusted, and I was left to stand in the woods until you came to help me."
"It was a terrible thing to undergo, but during the year I stood there I had time to think that the greatest loss I had known was the loss of my heart. While I was in love I was the happiest man on earth; but no one can love who has not a heart, and so I am resolved to ask Oz to give me one. If he does, I will go back to the Munchkin maiden and marry her."
Both Dorothy and the Scarecrow had been greatly interested in the story of the Tin Woodman, and now they knew why he was so anxious to get a new heart. "All the same," said the Scarecrow, "I shall ask for brains instead of a heart; for a fool would not know what to do with a heart if he had one." "I shall take the heart," returned the Tin Woodman; "for brains do not make one happy, and happiness is the best thing in the world." L. Frank Baum, The Wonderful Wizard of Oz
As I grow up (gasp, yes, I'm afraid I'm actually growing up! It was bound to happen sooner or later, despite my attempts to prevent it with koosh balls and corny jokes)I'm continually convinced that the yellow brick road we should follow in this life revolves around relationships. How many times have I missed out on wonderful friendships because I was too caught up in everything I had to do, and didn't make time to just hang out and build relationships? Perhaps I even missed some of those opportunities with you when our paths crossed. I agree with the Tin Woodman that brains do not make one happy, nor does work.
I disagree with the Tin Woodman in that happiness is the best thing in the world. Resting assured in your salvation, being content with who God made you to be, and knowing that you are carrying out His purposes---these are the best things in this world. My friend Tiff gave me a "homework assignment" to define what success means to me. I've turned that into a term paper, which I'm not ready to post just yet. But it revolves around quotes like these:
"Success is a journey, not a destination."
"Success is not permanent. The same is also true of failure."
"Trust in the LORD and do good;
dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture...
Commit your way to the LORD;
trust in him and he will do this:
He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn,
the justice of your cause like the noonday sun.
Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him;
do not fret when men succeed in their ways,
when they carry out their wicked schemes...
If the LORD delights in a man's way,
he makes his steps firm;
though he stumble, he will not fall,
for the LORD upholds him with his hand..." Psalm 37